Sunday, June 21, started as most of our worship services do. We had a couple of songs and then some announcements. However, following that time – a host of our own children took to the stage and sang three powerful songs with all of their hearts.
Under the able direction of Rae Johnson and with the aid of pianist Susan Parra, the choir highlighted several solo voices and also used the combined energy of the group to inspired dads and all in attendance on this special Father’s Day performance.
In addition to the kids’ songs – Lincoln Gifford shared with the 11:30 AM crowd about his recent trip to Bucharest, Romania. A Nooma DVD was also shown as part of the sermon that was entitled “Store” and spoke of Jesus’ right kind of anger. The sermon for the morning was taken from a single phrase in Habakkuk 3:2 – “In Wrath Remember Mercy.”
Though the announcements were routine, one shared by Will Walter was new and cutting edge in nature. Will and Kelly Gay have put together an eight-week Bible course for advanced and beginner students alike. The site, www.ghoconlinebibleschool.com, will post assignments each Thursday. Each student has the entire week to do the homework. Each additional week will give the answers from previous tests and post new homework. Let’s all dig into God’s word in deeper ways through the internet.
It was also announced that Francis and Neleen Mata have been restored to our congregation. That statement alone drew loud applause, as many in our church have known and loved them for years. The recent baptism of U Conn student Joey Prochena also was one of those “praise God” moments, as this new church was planted last year and is touching the eastern Connecticut community in great ways.
Though we celebrate our earthly fathers, we mostly want to encourage the ultimate dad, our Father in heaven.
Though the venue would change, the program remained the same. Following a downpour early on Sunday morning, June 14, the planned outdoor service was moved inside to our normal, New Britain meeting facility. In fact, one service became two morning services again. But just as had been planned, the graduates waiting to be honored were honored . . . and in fine fashion.
Each year, our church celebrates publicly the graduation of everyone high school age and older. Each graduates shares name, where graduated from, and what future plans are. Each graduate got a key ring with the verse Jeremiah 29:11 engraved on one side and Class of 2009 on the other.
In addition to graduation thoughts - lively song services were held, Tim Blake preached a powerful message and Mikayla Cody and Jenna Allen (both high school graduates) sang their rendition of “Brave.”
Our thoughts and prayers will stay with the graduates. Thankfully, God will stay with them as well. As Cheuba Prabakar (medical school grad) and Noah Mata (high school grad) shared before communion, there are so many parallel challenges found in schooling and training, the cross of Jesus and all of life. It is also magnificent to remember that any graduation on earth simply reminds us that one day we will “graduate” on to our eternal home – heaven.
Two months after the church was planted in Hartford fifteen years ago, Gary and Gail Sciascia moved to town from Atlanta, Georgia. At the time, they had a newborn son. From those early years, God has taken them through several jobs, two more children and ultimately into the full-time ministry. On June 7, 2009, Gary returned “home” to preach for each of our morning worship services.
Gary and Gail now serve as lead evangelist and women’s ministry leader for the dynamic Phoenix, Arizona, Church of Christ. They moved there a year and a half ago, after serving admirably in Groton for several years in the same role.
Gary’s sermon was taken from Mark 8 and walked us through three plus days in the life of Jesus. His exegetical study pointed us to the following questions: 1.) Do you believe that God knows what you need? 2.) Do you have spiritual Alzheimer’s? 3.) Are you half-healed? 4.) What’s your alias? 5.) Are you trying to suck the suffering out of salvation?
The entire morning was very powerful as the band added a particularly emotional element to our worship of God. Beautifully mixed in new and old songs showed us our desperation for God and need to look at His face alone. The communion speakers, sharers and all had clear and powerful messages as we gave and took the juice and bread together. Peter and Karen Rowe were particularly thankful for the Sciascias, as they welcomed all at second service. Gail met Karen at a Blockbuster’s Video and the Sciascias and Rowes have been forever spiritually linked.
Following the two services, Gary was gracious enough to stay for our family group leaders’ meeting. After lots of good news sharing, Gary delivered another lesson on “holistic ministry.” With wisdom, Gary shared how we are to meet emotional, spiritual and intellectual needs in Christ (Matthew 22:37). A good discussion ensued about how to make sure we are not just saying “repent,” but also not forgetting to “call sin, sin.” Getting advice, connecting struggling people up with others in similar situations and taking each person individually were some of the thoughts which came flowing from Gary’s lesson.
Eventually Gary left and went back to Groton to meet up with his wife and children. Gail had shared at the Women’s Day in Groton during the early Sunday afternoon hours. Gary and Gail will both return on Tuesday to share with our Hartford and U Conn staff group. So, though they were here only briefly, they will be used a lot. And even once they leave – in Hartford, the Sciascias will always be remembered.
In our busy lives as married people, we often don’t have the time to spend pondering something that God actually thinks very highly of. Do you have any guesses as to what that could be? You may be thinking things like saying “I love you,” or serving your spouse in the home or possibly making a better effort to tick things off of the honey-do list. But, while these are all great to do in our marriages, God has chosen to put an entire book (The Song of Songs) in the Bible dedicated to a thing that is easily captured and easily lost in our busy married lives: ROMANCE.
Tim and Sam Blake of the Greater Hartford Church organized this weekend-long event. “We chose the theme of romance because of a quote I read in a book,” said Tim. “The quote stated "When we marry someone we commit to being their only legitimate source of romance for the rest of their lives." I thought that was such a profound statement and a need I see in our relationships with one another and God,” he added.
Hundreds of married couples arrived at Jiminy Peak excited to spend a few days with their spouses without the interruption of daily life and the desire to draw closer to God and in turn, each other.
So was romance an easy topic for the married couples? Let’s find out.
Andrea Easton, married 7 years, said, “Romance comes so naturally when we are pursuing a potential spouse. Then we get married and we become comfortable. We forget all the hard work and planning that go into bringing romance to the table. This retreat was a practical reminder to plan for romance in our marriages not just wait for it to happen.”
Katrin Carter, married with a small child and another on the way, said, “The theme was very good and necessary; it's too easy to neglect, but so important; especially the parallel romantic relationship w/God.”
Another spouse said, “It's important for the men to hear how the wife has different needs from their own (emotional vs. physical).”
The lessons, taught by Mike and Scarlette Van Auken reminded the men and women that our needs are different in the romance department and that looking to each other’s needs is a biblical command and the best advice. They each shared funny personal stories that helped the listeners all to know that all married couples have had room to grow, and we all need to focus our eyes on Jesus everyday in the way we interact with our spouses.
The dance on Saturday night brought out all the laughter and good times that married couples need to have more often! Good music and a dance floor make for some carefree memories and some silly behavior when Tim called all the men to come out and strut their stuff. Well, let’s just say, it was entertaining!
Sunday morning’s church service was the send off for all the married couples as we were called back to the reason we die to ourselves and practice humility and selflessness in our marriages in the first place: Jesus’ love for us.
Several attendees were asked why they thought marriage retreats in general are important. Here are some of the reactions.
• “It is a time to reconnect physically, emotionally, and spiritually without distractions.”
• “It builds unity between churches.”
• “It’s a time of refreshment; a get-away.”
• “Marriage retreats are important because they are the only time that many of us get away as a couple. It is a great opportunity to spend time with your spouse and also the lessons help set the mood for the weekend. Learning how God would like my marriage to be is usually different than how I would like it. It's also good to see many other Christians from other churches.”
We look forward to seeing you at Marriage Retreat 2010!
“For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body – whether Jews or Greeks, slave or free – and we were all given the one Spirit to drink.” I Corinthians 12:13
On a chilly, summer evening – Christopher Escourse was baptized into Christ. Chris is a student at Manchester Community College. He initially visited church services as a friend of the Davis family. Tim Blake and some of the newly baptized campus men from Southern Connecticut State University studied the Bible with Chris.
Those Bible studies culminated in a decision to repent and be baptized. Several people shared on this special May evening of the amazing progress Chris has made in the past couple of months. It was inspiring to see and hear his convictions as well.
Following his immersion, there was a cake and more fellowship downstairs. It was particularly encouraging to see several from the campus ministry and the married ministry come together to celebrate, as they have all being praying for this memorable day for Chris.